Adam and I had a long talk today about a problem we've been having in our relationship. The last few calls that we've had, it feels like we've been emotionally distant, and part of that has to do with the fact that because of the distance, we're not involved in each other's lives. It's become totally separated, and we talked about whether that's been happening in the past and if it'll happen when he comes back. It led us to talk about how we're not involved enough in each other's social lives.
Anyways, for the time being, I suggested that we try to talk more candidly about each other's days rather than glazing over what basically happened. He said he wasn't sure about if it'll work or not, but its not like he has any other ideas. We ended up talking for a couple hours about it, but he says he still wants to talk about it. I'm not sure what else we can talk about, but I guess it's important that we do.
Afterwards, I came down to eat and 50 First Dates was playing on the TV. I really love that movie, its kind of silly but it's set in Hawaii and the premise is really sweet, so I love watching it.
Tomorrow I'm gonna try to tell Adam all the things that happened during my day since our last call and he'll do the same and we'll see how we feel about it. It's really tricky trying to figure out what we can do to make our conversations deeper and more emotionally intimate given the long distance. I hope we can come up with a permanent solution.
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